Thursday, August 27, 2009

Updates

Well after checking everyone else' blog i decided to check mine and noticed the last time I posted was like in June. OMG I'm such a loser. Anyway here is an update (minus pictures) on what's going on in my life.

It has finally happened...I go to court on Tuesday September 1st to fight for primary custody of my baby boy. His father has become a major poop head (keeping it clean) and is making up some really bad things about me. Saying my mental health has declined in the passed 30 days and I make irrational decisions when it comes to Jams, and that he's worried every second that I have Jams that I may cause him harm. WTF!!!!! I honestly laughed when i read the papers, mainly cause I have proof and documentation from 2005 to prove everything he is saying about me is totally and 100% false. He just wants to hurt me and is jealous I am happy and have move on so he is using my son as leverage and trying to control me still. All i have to say is. He has F'ed with the wrong mother. I hope the judge sees how dumb and how much of a lier my ex husband is. Please keep me and Jams in your prayers that the case goes in my favor.

On a positive note, my baby girl is crawling. As of August 15th she is mobile and there is no stopping her. She is still trying to get her teeth with no luck but the signs are there. With her still nurseing, her not having teeth isn't such a bad thing. She eats everything and I mean everything. She's just like her daddy.

Sorry there aren't any photos. I have them but with everything thats been going on I just haven't sat down and up loaded them plus my computer and camera are acting up. I will post updated photos as soon as everything settles down. I promise.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

New Do!




So I was tired of dealing with my long hair and feeling frumpy. So I chopped it off and love it!

Dede's Sunny Dexter











Mom had to come to the difficult decision a week ago to let Dexter go home. He was having some really bad medical problems and hung in there as long as he could. Mom choose to have Dexter put down the same way I put Bently down. A lady came to the house and we all were there with him hugging and kissing on Dexter when she put him down. It was very hard for everyone there, but my mm took it the worst. I have never seen her cry that hard in a while and it broke my heart. On a higher note, Dexter is back home with mom now. She had him cremated and is in a beautiful box in a glass cabinet at moms along with his foot print. Dexter you are missed and not a day goes by that your not thought of. Love you Dexter and take care of Bently and don't get into to much trouble together. And remember, stay out of the fridge!

Frama Time







Frama enjoying her time with Denners

Denver and Jams Update
























































Well as some of you may know, Cj and I moved to Dayton which is about 20 minutes past Carson City. We have a beautiful home, it's completely remodeled an has a huge back yard for the kids. We are in the process of getting a sand bax and swing set from Tinas cousin. It's nice to let the kids outside to play and not worry about cars or dogs or anything like that. I get Jams almost every weekend, due to him being in school in Reno. He's so smart and has tested above average for kids his age. He loves to help mommy in the kitchen and is so willing to learn all kinds of new things. He is so helpful with his little sister. Helps bottle feed her, bath her, and change and dress her. He always wants to be close to her and hug and kiss her. I couldn't have asked for a better helper. And as for my little Denners...she just turned 6 months in May. I can't believe how fast she is growing up, it makes me sad. So far she says Da Da and Daddy and is working on ma ma. She started sitting up about 3 weeks ago and is starting to move around and lift her tummy off the floor. She is going to be moblie in no time. Baby locks here we come. Cj gets the fun of installing those. Denver and myself go for a walk everyday in Benjamins wagon. She loves it. She hates her stroller because she can't see out of it very well and it's confining. I enjoy our walks, it allows us some special quiet away time and when we have Jams we walk to the park and play. Denver reached for me for the first time a few nights ago and it melted my heart. They both know how to tug at mommys heart strings and make me smile. And my goodness does she have the cutest giggle ever.

Frama Weekend





































Benjamin, Denver, and Myself spent a fun filled weekend with Frama Dede and Papa Teddy. Jams helped papa clean the garage and pick up stuff around the yard and made a dump run. He loves going to the dump and watching the big tractor push everything into one big pile. Mommy took Denver to get her shots, breaks my heart everytime she gets them. Then later Frama, Jams, Denver, and myself spent the day outside helping Frama get her garden all set up. Jams helped plant and water the vegetables and then help mix cement so we could put up the hammock. My little guy is such a big helper. He's all boy all the time.

Easter






















Easter was a wonderful day. Cj, myself and all the kids went to Dad and Tinas for dinner and hoilday festivities. We started out with opening the easter baskets. The kids got candy, toys and much needed clothes. We then enjoyed the old fashioned egg coloring and decorating. It was so fun watching them color their eggs, my do they have wild imaginations. The best part, for the kids, was the Easter egg hunt. They each got about 10 eggs and they all walked away with $5.00 a piece. So needless to say we will be going to G PA and T MAs next year. Hope you all had a wonderful Easter holiday as well.